
Manny personified
joie de vivre-the name of her game was Fun. Having relinquished personal ambition at an
early stage, she was free to pursue whatever interest struck her fancy. And those
interests were many, including especially the zoo of characters who passed through Max's
lab and visited C
altech
over the years. Manny loved stories about those people, of whom I was privileged to be
one. "As tired as Seymour at the Grand Canyon" became a standard of fatigue
which Manny and Max took glee in applying to novice campers whom they had introduced to
the first camping trip of their lives. No such trip was complete without some kind of
disaster to recount, later, with enjoyment. Herman Kalckar's broken leg, after he had
deprecated the crumbly desert boulders as "Hollywood rocks," was a trophy. My
confidence in rock climbing was shaken when, while dangling helplessly in space at the end
of a rope held by Jean Weigle, I looked down and saw the Delbrücks slapping their sides
with laughter. Practical jokes were almost de rigeur. But make no mistake: This mischief
was combined with unsurpassed warmth, hospitality, generosity and concern. To know Manny
and Max was to love and admire them both.
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From
Max we learned how to do science; from Manny, how to live. As a Californian raised in the
Levant, Manny had an aura of cosmopolitan glamour about her. With her quick mind, wide
cultural interests, and mental rigor, on the one hand, and her casual charm, good will,
and sense of humor, on the other, she was a rare combination of the best personality
traits that the Old and New Worlds have to offer. She made the Delbrück home a kind of
intellectual salon, where we
could
drop in on her and Max at almost any time, and socialize with them and with other
drop-ins, warming our hearts in the enchanting ambience generated by Manny's wonderful
qualities. The venue of Manny's salon was not restricted to her home. On many a weekend,
we sat around a campfire somewhere in the California desert, on one of the outings that
she had organized. The visits to the Delbrücks' house and the desert outings provided for
us many of the most precious memories of the formative years we spent at Caltech, with
Manny at their focus.
Gunther Stent
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Manny lived a life that I loved. She was a
person in her own right, a partner, not simply "Max's wife." Her ideas and
example challenged and expanded the conventions I had been exposed to previously. It was
in 1952, when I was newly married, and new to the culture of international science, that
Manny and Max welcomed Dave and me into their circle, where plots and activities were
hatched spontaneously and carried on with childish enthusiasm.
Being part of Manny's life gave me a sense, an experience, of a life that
flowed from people to culture to play to science to nature to civic life-all on the
lubricants of good food, unpretentious spontaneity, and seemingly effortless immersion in
the flow of life. Manny's gift for friendship was extraordinary. Although she had friends
all over the world, she always remembered her particular connection with each, picking up
the thread from their last time together. And at her home, friends came, friends stayed,
friends left, and returned. . .
Anne Stadler